I got to riff with my brother, Tim Scholten from Ossining, NY!  We talk about his coming out story in our conservative family and town, as well as a deeper dive into labels, some fun, some more serious and the connotations they carry.

When he first came out, and even more so when I first came out, I felt like I needed a crash course in gay vernacular and pop culture.  So for all of you who want to know more, here it is!